Thumbs Down for Sadie!

samwise · #1 10-02-2017, 07:45 AM

The woman I see regularly is away on vacation, so I contacted a couple of women that I've visited in the past. A date was set up for last Monday, but it was cancelled at the last minute by Sadie because she had an "unwanted visitor". These things happen so I wasn't bent out of shape about it. Sadie responses since then have been confusing to put it mildly. In summary Sadie is a petite and very pretty woman, but she also seems to be flaky and unreliable. Just a word of warning to newbies.

Gerald · #2 10-02-2017, 08:58 AM

Hard to pass judgement without knowing the facts from her side.
Although, if the worst you can say about a lady is that you can't get to see her, then I wouldn't give her a full thumbs down. A kick in the bum maybe. lol
I tend to look more at her long term record to see if it's a regular complaint, or just a bad turn of events on a personal level. We have to remember that these ladies don't usually share their personal lives with us, so anything is possible.
Not "white knighting" as some may like to accuse me of, I just like to have more facts before saying anything that could negatively affect someone's business.
I've had really bad service at the Keg, but the meal is always worth going back for.

All that being said, your opinion is always welcome and most of us here have been in your shoes at one time or another with other ladies, so we can empathize. It's frustrating as hell physically and mentally.

Kway1759 · #3 10-02-2017, 11:21 AM

I've seen her numerous times and haven't had a bit of trouble.
I did notice she wasn't working at all last week and is available today so I imagine her "unwanted visitor" is gone for at least 3 weeks!

Sadie · #4 10-02-2017, 12:15 PM

It is true I had to cancel our appointment last week which I've apologized for and I do not dispute at all, however I did not send you any further communications after the email to cancel and apologize so I don't see how

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Originally Posted by samwise

Sadie responses since then have been confusing to put it mildly.:

when there were no responses sent to you. (With the exception of this morning when you sent an email stating you were available today or tomorrow and otherwise to have a good life of which I replied to said email and again apologized for cancelling our one booked appointment and wished you well, which was sent after this thread was started so until after the statement of my "confusing responses" there hadn't been any further response)

Regardless, all the best!

Xoxo Sadie

Sadie · #5 10-02-2017, 12:19 PM

Thank you kway! :)

samwise · #6 10-02-2017, 02:17 PM

Apology accepted already and thanks for replying.

Wes · #7 10-03-2017, 02:36 AM

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Originally Posted by samwise

Apology accepted already and thanks for replying.

I do hope that any newbie that sees this thread reads it fully and not just the first post. "Flaky and unreliable" are not words I would ever use to describe Sadie. A one time cancellation IMHO doesn't really call for a thumb's down review. If that was the case I'm sure there would be MANY more of these reviews.

VIPER · #8 10-03-2017, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Wes

I do hope that any newbie that sees this thread reads it fully and not just the first post. "Flaky and unreliable" are not words I would ever use to describe Sadie. A one time cancellation IMHO doesn't really call for a thumb's down review. If that was the case I'm sure there would be MANY more of these reviews.

Excellent comments! ...exactly what I was thinking...I think he may have jumped the gun and got a little impatient on this one( not that I haven't done the same in the past ...but learned my lesson however)...I assume he burned the bridge with her and would be surprised if he wasn't on Sadie's do-not-call list because of it...

Puff n' Stuff · #9 10-04-2017, 05:43 AM

Maybe the op should try seeing Paris so he can really get the run around and see how the pros disrespect people and piss them off

samwise · #10 10-08-2017, 09:01 AM

The only member who has said anything I agree with is Puff. He's correct that I reacted in temper, but I've got no regrets. My anger didn't stem from the time she had to cancel, it was because I waited days for a reply to my messages after that. I don't tolerate that. My regulars over the years have been Emily Rushton, an FWorld girl, and my current lady. Their always treated 1st class by myself, and I expect the same treatment. A lot of guys forget the fact that these ladies only have as much power over the situation as we give them. If you check your backbone at the door, don't be surprised when your treated shabbily.