Thumbs Down for Sadie!

[Gerald]

[frank66]

"Don t tolerate that, ladies only have as much power over situation as we give them, check your backbone", wow does anyone else see the big red flags here

Got to tell you buddy, a bit of patience and respect would have paid off big time here

[donnyg]

I found Sadie to be extremely accommodating & well worth the time and effort!! She is a bit young for me tho;
I have found all of the present L.S. providers (except one) that I have had the pleasure of meeting, to be extremely professional, courteous, & very exciting.
On the one nameless one, she did not answer text, PM, or email- I think I get the message! But, to save me chasing her, a polite 'no thanks' would have been appreciated.
Providers are able to pick and choose, as they should, if a 30 something lady feels that a late 50's man is too old for her, she could just politely refer to her age policy instead of leaving him dangling as to whether she is getting his requests. donnyg

[JeffD]

Originally Posted by donnyg

I found Sadie to be extremely accommodating & well worth the time and effort!! She is a bit young for me tho;
I have found all of the present L.S. providers (except one) that I have had the pleasure of meeting, to be extremely professional, courteous, & very exciting.
On the one nameless one, she did not answer text, PM, or email- I think I get the message! But, to save me chasing her, a polite 'no thanks' would have been appreciated.
Providers are able to pick and choose, as they should, if a 30 something lady feels that a late 50's man is too old for her, she could just politely refer to her age policy instead of leaving him dangling as to whether she is getting his requests. donnyg

To be fair and to give the lady in question the benefit of the doubt, she may have been in the middle of a session, or not even working and checking her phone. And many ladies don't reply to texts from clients they aren't familiar with after a certain time frame has passed. They don't know your personal situation and whether a reply a few hours or a day later would be received at a bad time for you. I never take a non response the first time as a sign she isn't interested in seeing me.

I had that happen with a lady here in my first year of hobbying. I sent a couple messages over the course of a couple weeks and didn't get a reply. So I figured I didn't want to be a bother. Then as it happened, she was in the chatroom one night and a group of us were chatting and get along well, so I private chatted with her and mentioned I was interested in seeing her but I wasn't sure if the no replies were meant as a signal that she wasn't interested. She replied with what I said above, that she doesn't check the phone when she isn't working (she had another job or school or something so she never took the work phone with her to those places). And that she doesn't want to send back an untimely reply that prying eyes might see. Went on to book with her and saw her many times over the next year or so.