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Old 11-30-2017, 06:48 PM
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Default Re: Younger first-timer looking for recommendations and advice

I'm happy to see so many positive responses in such a short time. This seems to be a friendlier community than most. A bit amusing since I'm sure it would be considered somewhat controversial.

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Originally Posted by Gerald
First, I'd suggest an advertiser here. They have been reviewed and won't rip you off. A BP girl you know nothing about is a big gamble.
That's what I was thinking, and it's partly why I'm posting here in particular. Everyone advertising here looks more or less legitimate, whereas with backpage it seems like 90% of the ads are likely to be bait and switches at best.

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Originally Posted by Gerald
Second, read their ads. Usually, if they have an age restriction it will be posted in the ad. Looking randomly, I don't see age restrictions on every ad.
That's good to read. I've seen it very frequently and seen some providers who've posted ads both with it and without it. Between that and the fact that the community of hobbyists seems to be overwhelmingly 30+ (inasmuch as I can guess at it at all) I was worried it might be near-universal and just not always mentioned.

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Originally Posted by Dylan Lane
Another recommendation is to tell your board name here. Be polite and curtious when texting. I?ve seen younger men only because I thought they were more mature and older then what they are.
I think I can manage that. Don't have much reputation here (just signed up!) but I'm usually good at being polite. Long-winded, maybe, as you may be able to tell.
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