the rose is gone?
 

had tried to contact Denym last week no response and no her ad is gone...did i miss my chance??

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I emailed her a few weeks ago when she claimed she was still getting organized. She stated that she would be requiring a recent photograph from each client, which I told her was unlikely to occur.

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ok thanks

hmmm yeah not sure about that request...perhaps if both sent at same time....

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I sent her my pic and got rejected not her type I guess!

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I think she meant "face" pic. lmao

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Does she send a face pic in return ? Cuz I sent her mine requesting one and didn't get it, she also wants my tax returns for the last 5 years and medical records along with a list of charities I've donated to (even though it's in my taxes) and a blood sample . Sent it all, it was the requested letter from my mother saying I'm a good boy that I thought was pushing it especially considering I'd already sent the requested letter from my priest extolling my limited virtues. Oh well you win some you lose some

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She probably just has a big family and wants to make sure she doesn't open up her door and see her perverted uncle Bob standing there.
I know how I would feel in that situation if it was my niece answering the door. I'd feel obligated to leave a big tip after my time with her....:grin4:

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Suuuuure, that's the ticket, perverted Uncle Bobby, good spin but having contacted her she gave the impression of a fussy princess and I think she:s being selective for her own enjoyment. Hard pass, but not being a chiseled Adonis and being a client that expects to be treated as such, she's likely very happy not to see me. I've had better results looking elsewhere, lately most ladies here are picky, cranky with no interest in gratuity. Perhaps a time waster screening process is in order for future advertisers

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I have tried and tried to get a hold of this beautiful lady

Alas, to no avail... :sad3:

Has anyone else had any luck? If so how? Add is still up..but is she around

And Denym if you read this..Im on my knees begging if you want (or anything else u want while im there!)

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Booking one night only. Friday night.
Please if interested I do require a few things from new clients. Age, ethnicity and a recent picture.
It is for my safety and preference.
Seriously inquiries only please and include picture in first message.
Thank you

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Perhaps it would be a good idea for you to say what your preference is so guys you aren't interested in don't go through sending their pics and then don't hear back from you

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Possibly a brief explanation of your picture requirement would help as well. You are certainly entitled to ask, but I am sure guys are concerned about what could happen with that picture. We are potentially putting ourselves in a vulnerable position with LE, or there are other places the picture could end up that may not be desirable. As far as I know you are the only SP who makes this request.

Tipper.

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I agree with tipper. I know some aren't too thrilled with Shauna Aloha's vetting process of a coffee meeting before actually having coffee but it is much prefered to emailing pictures of yourself. Something this SP may want to throw out there as an option.

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I feel I need to weigh in here on this topic.
I don't know Denym Rose but I know of her and I can only speak for myself and the reasons why I have my specific vetting process
As most of you all know, I was in the business many years ago in a different city. And like most other companions, I would only vet through phone calls and references. I was very, very busy to the point I got burnt out and retired.
As some may not agree with my process but I take time out of my schedule to have a brief coffee as I do this for my safety. (if you cannot provide a reference) Although I do respect ones discretion, Our safety is bottom line. But this can also benefit both parties as you all know there is nothing wrong with just having a coffee before dessert. And you get to see the goodies, discuss menu and have the option of walking away or staying.I think it's a win, win...
I am sure she has her own reasons why she does it this way.
Most of the gentlemen I have met while on this board have been nothing short of wonderful. There are a few I just didn't click with but to each their own.
I have had many gentlemen provide me with a photo (I am not sure if the photo was real or not) but I always prefer face to face meetings as you can tell a lot from a person from just spending a few minutes wth them. As I would also like to enjoy myself. If I am going to remain in this industry for a few more years, or anyone that remains in this industry, there are certain steps that one must take to maintain our level of sanity, health and safety.
Again, I don't know her specific reasons but I am sure they are valid

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Nothing wrong with a little feedback, but I believe she has very specific reasons for running her business the way she does. I respect that.
I have had people tell me "Gerald you are doing this or that wrong". That causes me to stop, think about what I am doing, then decide if I should change something. 99.9 percent of the time I don't change but there is always that chance. :sad2:
In the end we all run our own businesses the way we feel it works best for us as business owners.
I remember suggesting to one of my advertisers once how she could better run her business. She looked at me with a big smile and said "Would you like to come over and see the large house I own mortgage free and have recently renovated?"
I just smiled back and replied, "Point taken". :laugh:

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Well said Gerald. People do things their way for a reason. If u don't want to jump through the hoops, find a different provider.

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But what if you jump through the hoops but never hear back? Of course it's the ladies" choice of who they see or not but if a guy is willing to go through the steps I think it would only be fair to get a reply of why a meeting won't happen. Hence why I previously said if she was to state what sort of client she prefers it may help with guys getting hopes up because they did send required pic.

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It seems the post title is relevant again as her ad is down...

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yeah...I did email her a pic...no word back

chalk it up to was never meant to be and move on....plenty of lovely ladies to spend my time with

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And she is back...

I will have to keep trying I guess....

Denym im a nice safe old white guy....really 😀